Friday, 14 February 2014

Friend's Trap !

Hmmm, wierd title but couldn't find another one that suits this article better. Well! everyone has this one person who they are so close to and a situation pops up and you are amazed by how your friend acted and you say to yourself is this really the person I know or was it just a mask to benefit in some way from you.          

well , If you are facing something like this then this article is for you and by the end of it you will find out wether your friend is genuine or fake. So let's get started: here are ten tips and situations that will help you figure out wether you are in a trap or no. { If more than three of these tips seem to happen to you in any way then you are officialy in a trap, If three or less then you should keep your eyes open and if none of this occured to you then you are in a genuine friendship}

1. If you argue about not calling back or first.

2. If your friend always except you to call first , text first.

3. If your friend always bosses you around and never respect your opinion.

4. If it seems that your friend always asks you for favors and never returns them , it's a sign of using you.

5.If your friend is hitting on your crush and fully alert that you like him.

6. If she knows all your secrets and never share hers with you than that's definitly a trap.

Hope you enjoyed it and found it helpful and I hope that this article is the way that you got rid of your friend's trap.

Thursday, 13 February 2014

How to achieve self confidence ?

Self confidence a property that every teenager should have especially teenage girls. I struggled alot to achieve self confidence and now that I reached a good place it's my turn to help other girls achieve their goals and dreams.

Self confidence can't be bought or bribed or imitated, it has to come from your deepest feelings and your own free will, here are some steps that helped me through the way:

1. Every morning when you wake up , tidy yourself,wash your face and admit to yourself that you are beautiful and don't be afraid to show it.

2. Pick up an outfit that suits you and don't be afraid to show who you are, be bold be strong.

3. In the school corridors, smile , say goodmorning to everyone even people who you barely know.

4. Join different clubs and try to find your talent or your passion, Do a sport preferbly to be a team sport remember there is no I in team which will make you able to communicate better and say your opinion out loud, don't be afraid.

5. Even if you still don't feel that confident don't show it to other people, some might use it against you, make others believe that you are super confident and as the time flies you will believe it too.

6. At last , smile at b****es who hate you .A smile that says I'm confident and you can suck it.

Hope you found this article helpful and these steps really helped me even my friends and family saw the diffrence.